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Warning Signs She's Dumping You

"She took the kids, got the house, the cars, emptied the mutual funds, raided the savings account.  She got everything."

HERE ARE SOME IMPORTANT WARNING SIGNS THAT YOUR WIFE IS PLANNING ON DUMPING YOU

Remember, women institute nearly 70% of all separations and divorces. They pre-plan their moves very carefully, often long in advance and upon the advice of, and in colaboration with, others.

Recognise that in 90% of separations she is not coming back.  She will never come back, but she dangles that hope to con you out of your rights in custody, access, support and to maximise her share of asset distribution.

Remember, women get, or are awarded, child custody 90% of the time.  They are aided in this by government, courts, judges, lawyers and a host of feminist support organisations.  This need not be the situation, and you should not listen to those who would discourage you from seeking custody or joint/shared custody.  In fact, fathers who contest custody are successful in over 50% of cases, but note carefully that this group is only a small subset of the 10% of fathers with child custody.

Remember two things: 1) Children want and need their fathers, as well as their mothers - not just as 'uncles' or visitors, but as fathers; and 2) Fathers are parents as much as are mothers - Fathers Are Capable Too (FACT!).

Warning Signs

• Things seem to be disappearing from the house, but you're not sure.

• A new woman friend is on the scene with whom your wife holds many mysterious phone calls.

• Things are strangely calm with her.

• She has opened a new bank account or suddenly started worrying about her personal credit rating.

• Check to see if any suitcases or such are missing. Women planning on leaving will pack a getaway bag and stash it at a friend's house.

• She is suddenly more secretive then ususal about things like her phone calls, her mail, her whereabouts.

• She gets a separate post office box for her mail.

• She is more tolerant of things about you that bug her or she seems to just not care anymore.

• She has a sudden or renewed interest in getting a job outside the house or a better paying job.

• She is taking more interest and care in her health, fitness and appearance.

• She talks about needing 'space' and time to think things through.

• She is argumentative and seeking to provoke you to hit her, even to the point of pushing all your (emotional) buttons and demanding that you "Hit me! Go on! Hit me!"

• She has sought legal or police advice.

• She has commenced college or tertiary studies, in the humanities, perhaps with a feminist "women's studies" component, or is involved with feminists in other organised groups.